Thank you 谢谢

Suddenly found out, there still have people is reading my blog and even comment here.
I am appreciate for all the comment but i am very sorry that i couldn't reply all.

Thanks for supporting and enjoy my blog!

突然发现还有很多人会阅读我的部落格，甚至留言。
我衷心感谢也非常抱歉的我不能一一回复。

多谢支持及继续阅读

Meaningful

女生就像梨.

外甜内酸.

吃梨的人不知道里的心是酸的.

因为吃到最后就把心给丢了.

所以男生从来不懂女生的心。

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男生就像洋葱.

想要看到男生的心.

就需要一层一层去切.

但是你切的过程中会不断流泪.

切到最后.

才知道原来洋葱没有心的...

最不適合作结婚对象的男人

1.长得太帅：男人除非要当鸭或者打定主意吃软饭，否则长得太漂亮绝对是缺点。太漂亮的男人，摆在街上供人意淫挺好，真把他请进家里供著？才怪！

2.挣钱太多：男人的钱，够稳定生活就好了。钱太多烧手，往往会生外心。当他的钱可以应付不止一个女人的首饰需要，就算他不主动，也有其他女人以所谓爱情的名义自动送上门来。

3.服装品味太好：男人服装穿得干净整洁就好，太讲究服装的男人，往往太爱自己，婚姻生活里不懂得適当的让步。想一个男人，他的衣服比女人还多，每月制装费比女人还高，每天早晨出门前，考虑是穿蓝色这套好，还是黑色那套好，是配灰色领带，还是配棕色鞋子，多么娘娘腔！

4.个子太高：想要个子高的男人，最好看看你自己有多高。莎菲女士碰见的那位小白脸，高得她仅到他腋下，这样子高法，有甚么好？一辈子那么长，天天需仰视才得见，脖子吃不消不说，大多时间只能看到他下半截。要是光为了男人的下半身，哪有结婚必要？

5.守在家里：男人晚上不出去，肯守在家里，应该算美德吧？曾经去一个朋友家玩，住了3天，吃 尽了苦。那男人外表看斯文温和，抢起电视遥控器来可是寸土必爭从不手软。我要看麦当娜，他要看警察现场抓罪犯。我们每天最佳娱乐就是抢遥控器，因对方身强 力壮，每次以我的失败告终。看著他宽厚的肩膀，我心里对自己咬牙切齿地说：“绝不嫁这男人！”

7 Ways You Can Easily Save Paper and Avoid Killing the Environment

o why does saving paper even matter?

For starters, the pulp and paper industry is the third largest consumer of energy and uses more water to produce a ton of product than any other industry. In 2005, out of 245,000,000 tons of waste 34.2% was paper according to the EPA. That is over 83,300,000 tons of paper that is wasted every year.

When I first heard about Blog Action Day I knew this was a way that everyone, including designers, could easily help the environment.

About 20,000,000 trees are cut down annually for virgin paper used for production of books in the US alone. So think green and save the environment while saving yourself some money by using less paper.

What can You do?

1. Buy Recycled Paper, Duh
   According to the City of Seattle a ton of paper made from recycled paper, as opposed to virgin paper, saves the equivalent of 4,100 kilowatt hours of energy, 7000 gallons of water, 60 pounds of air emissions, and 3 cubic yards of landfill space.
2. Check Your Work to Avoid Printing Copies that Have to Be Thrown Away
   Make sure to spell check your work, and even read over it on screen. Use the Print Preview feature to preview your work to make sure everything lines up correctly.
3. Use the Print Range feature to Print Only what You Need
   You can use the Print range feature available in most programs to print only the exact pages or the selected text that you need.
4. Don’t Throw Away Your Mis-prints, Keep it as Draft Paper
   You can keep paper that you may have printed earlier which you no longer need, and print on the blank side instead of throwing it way like I am sure we have all done before. You can even use it to jot down notes for yourself instead of wasting Post it notes.
5. Make Use of Double Sided Printing
   It’s actually pretty simple. First print the odd pages by editing the Print range after pressing Ctrl+P. Then flip the pages over and put them back in the paper tray. Then just print the even pages by editing the Print range once again.
6. Avoid Printed Envelope Labels, And Print Directly on to the Envelope
   Save paper by avoiding printing addresses on to labels, only to turn around and stick that label on an envelope. It is very easy to addresses and more right onto the label using Microsoft Word or other word processing programs.
7. Send Documents via eMail or eFax
   Although you may not always be able to, try to send stuff via email whenever possible. If you are going to fax something, many times people never use the functionality of many printers which allows for eFax. With eFax you don’t have to print something out just to stick in the fax machine and then throw it away when your done.

不爽﹐生氣﹐抓狂﹐哭笑不得的分別

有一天﹐

兒子問爸爸: 爸爸, 不爽﹐生氣﹐抓狂﹐哭笑不得的分別是甚麼意思﹖

爸爸﹕要解釋很難﹐不如讓我來示範。

首先﹐爸爸拿了一本電話簿﹐隨機選出一個人。然後打電話給那個人。順便把電話調到擴音器模式。

VICTIM﹕HELLO﹖

爸爸﹕HELLO﹐ 請問ABDULLAH BADAWI在家嗎﹖

VICTIM﹕你打錯電話啦﹗

爸﹕你不要騙我啦﹗

VICTIM﹕我騙你幹嘛﹗神經病﹗ (蓋了電話)

爸﹕哪﹐兒子﹐這個就是 "不爽"。現在來看甚麼是生氣。

(兒子點頭)

(過了5分鐘﹐爸爸再打一次電話給那個人)

VICTIM﹕HELLO﹖

爸﹕請問ABDULLAH BADAWI有在家嗎﹖

VICTIM﹕怎麼又是你﹖都跟你講了你打錯電話了﹗

爸﹕我沒打錯電話啊﹗

VICTIM﹕你這個神經病﹐你到底是誰﹖

爸﹕我是誰你還不懂﹖我是NAJIB啦﹗

VICTIM﹕%^&*$#@﹗你是NAJIB我還ANWAR咧﹗白痴﹗(大力蓋電話)

爸﹕哪﹐兒子。這個就是"生氣"。懂了嗎﹖

兒子﹕喔我懂了﹗

爸﹕現在來看下甚麼是抓狂﹗(又打電話給那個可憐的人)

那個人一拿起電話就咆哮了﹗

VICTIM﹕你這個吃飽沒事做的神經病﹗整天打電話來干擾我﹐要不是我的電話沒有CALLER ID我早就報警了你這個變態佬。。。。

爸﹕(刻意壓低聲音)ERM。。。。請問林先生在嗎。。。。﹖

VICTIM﹕啊﹗很對不起﹗剛剛有個變態一直打電話來。。。

爸﹕喔﹐沒關係﹐請問ABDULLAH BADAWI在家嗎﹖

VICTIM﹕ ##$W$#^^%$E$%^$&^%R%^$^&%^$^%$﹗﹗﹗﹗﹗

這一次﹐爸爸蓋上了電話。

爸﹕你現在知道分別了吧﹗等下你媽媽要回來了﹐我們可以吃晚餐了﹗

兒子﹕可是爸爸﹐你還沒有講解甚麼是哭笑不得﹖

爸﹕喔﹐那個要等到晚上12點啦﹗

(晚上12點﹐爸爸搖醒兒子﹐然後又打電話給那個人)

VICTIM﹕HELLO。。。。。﹖(睡到一半被吵醒)

爸﹕我是ABDULLAH BADAWI﹐有誰打電話找我啊﹖

VICTIM﹕。。。。。。。。。。。。

爸爸好厲害啊﹗

a touch story

I was walking around in a Target store,
when I saw acashier hand thislittle boy some money back..
The boy couldn't have been more than 5 or 6 yearsold.

The Cashier said, 'I'm sorry, but you don't haveenough money to buy thisdoll.'

Then the little boy turned to the old woman next tohim: ''Granny, areyou sure I don't have enough money?''
The old lady replied: ''You know that you don't haveenough money to buythis doll, my dear.''

Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minuteswhile she went to lookaround.
She left quickly.
The little boy was still holding the doll in hishand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who hewished to give this doll to.

'It's the doll that my sister loved most and wantedso much for Christmas.
She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her.

'I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bringit to her afterall, and not to worry.

But he replied to me sadly. 'No, Santa Claus can't bring it to her where she is now.
I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she cangive it to my sisterwhen she goes there.'

His eyes were so sad while saying this.
'My Sister has gone to be with God.
Daddy says thatMommy is going tosee God very soon too,
so I thought that she couldtake the doll with her togive it to my sister.''

My heart nearly stopped.

The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I told daddy to tell mommynot to go yet.
I need her to wait until I come backfrom the mall.'

Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where hewas laughing.
He then told me 'I want mommy to take my picture with her soshe won't forget me.''
I love my mommy and I wish she doesn't have toleave me,
but daddy says that she has to go to be with my littlesister.'
Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy.'
Suppose we checkagain,just in case you do have enough money for thedoll?''
'OK' he said, 'I hope I do have enough.'
I added some of my moneyto his without him seeing and we started to count it.

There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money!'
Then he looked at me and added,
'I asked last nightbefore I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommycould give it to my sister.
He heard me!'''I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy,but I didn't dare to ask God for too much.But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a whiterose.'''My mommy loves white roses.'

A few minutes later,
the old lady returned and I left with my basket.
I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started.
I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind.
Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago,
which mentioned a drunk man in a truck,
who hit a caroccupied by a youngwoman and a little girl.
The little girl died right away, and the mother wasleft in a criticalstate.
The family had to decide whether to pull the plug onthe life-sustainingmachine,
because theyoung woman would not be able to recover from the coma.
Was this the family of the little boy?
Two days after this encounter with the little boy,
Iread in the newspaper that the young woman had passed away.
I couldn't stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went tothe funeral home where the body of the young womanwas exposed for peopleto see and make lastwishes before her burial.
She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the dollplaced over her chest..
I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my lifehad been changed forever...
The love that the little boy had for hismother and hissister is still, to this day, hardto imagine.
And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver hadtaken all this awayfrom him.

Afraid to face the truth

刚刚阅读了一位台湾作家，女王的文章
这篇文章只针对
为什么有这么多“乍看之下”很好的女生
都交不到男朋友
他问了很多男生的真心话
结果作出了一下的结论：

1）你真的不美
2）“公主病” 不轻
3）挑别人之前，先评评自己几两重
4) 少女漫画中毒症
5）宅女不出门，男人也不会敲你的门
6）高学历的乖乖牌
7）他的口头禅是：“我妈说...”
8）只想跟他上床，不想当她的男友

如果你现在没有男朋友
女王说的这八点
你有吗？

看父母就是看自己的未來

如果你在一個平凡的家庭長大
如果你的父母還健在
不管你有沒有和他們同住
如果有一天，你發現媽媽的廚房不再像以前那麼乾淨
如果有一天，你發現家中的碗筷好像沒洗乾淨
如果有一天，你發現母親的鍋子不再雪亮
如果有一天，你發現父親的花草樹木已漸荒廢
如果有一天，你發現家中的地板衣櫃經常沾滿灰塵
如果有一天，你發現母親煮的菜太鹹太難吃
如果有一天，你發現父母經常忘記關瓦斯
如果有一天，你發現老父老母的一些習慣不再是習慣時，就像他們 不再想要天天洗澡時
如果有一天，你發現父母不再愛吃青脆的蔬果
如果有一天，你發現父母愛吃煮得爛爛的菜
如果有一天，你發現父母喜歡吃稀飯
如果有一天，你發現他們過馬路行動反應都慢了
如果有一天，你發現在吃飯時間他們老是咳個不停
千萬別誤以為他們感冒或著涼，( 那是吞嚥神經老化的現象 )

如果有一天，你發覺他們不再愛出門 …
如果有這麼一天
我要告訴你，你要警覺父母真的已經老了
器官已經退化到需要別人照料了
如果你不能照料，請你替他們找人照料
並請你請你千萬千萬要常常探望
不要讓他們覺得被遺棄了
每個人都會老
父母比我們先老
我們要用角色互換的心情去照料他
才會有耐心、才不會有怨言
當父母不能料理自己的時候，為人子女要警覺，
他們可能會大小便失禁、可能會很多事都做不好，

如果房間有異味，可能他們自己也聞不到，
請不要嫌他髒或嫌他臭，為人子女的只能幫他清理，
並請維持他們的『自尊心』。
當他們不再愛洗澡時，
請抽空定期幫他們洗身體，
因為縱使他們自己洗也可能洗不乾淨。

當我們在享受食物的時候，
請替他們準備一份大小適當、容易咀嚼的一小碗，
因為他們不愛吃可能是牙齒咬不動 了。

從我們出生開始，
餵奶換尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、
教我們生活基本能力、供給讀書、吃喝玩樂和補習，
關心和行動永遠都不停歇。
如果有一天，
他們真的動不了了，
角色互換不也是應該的嗎？

為人子女者要切記，
看父母就是看自己的未來，
孝順要及時。
如果有一天，
你像他們一樣老時，你希望怎麼過？
現在的你，
是在當單身寄生蟲、還是已婚雙料或多料寄生蟲？
你留意過自己的父母嗎？
樹欲靜而風不止、子欲養而親不在
您的父母還有多少時間等您?

安顺

我身在繁忙的城市，

清早，

伴随我的是沉重的步伐、烦躁的车鸣生和疲惫的身躯。

夜晚，

城市灯火弥漫，

四周围夹带着喧哗声、浓烟酒气和人们放肆的身躯。

我从小出生在城市，

什么陀螺，毽子，风筝...

我对他们全然陌生。

更甭提什么山、湖、河、海的。

那天，

我寄宿在霹雳的一个小镇，安顺。

安顺，

虽没有什么风光明媚的大自然景象，

也没有人玩什么陀螺、毽子还是风筝，

但是，

却让人有安全感，自在与自由。

每当我坐在摩托车上，

感触更是良多。

很喜欢那种自由自在的感觉。。

没有偷窃、没有抢劫，

我能抛下城市人沉重的步伐与疲惫的身躯，

也能卸下身上累最的装饰，

也能脱下脸上紧鹏的面具，

自自在在的，

没有烦恼的，

在富有人情味的街上奔驰。

当然，

被自己心爱的人，

载着你奔驰，

远远的望着，

由古人一砖一瓦砌成的斜塔，

更有中说不出的喜悦。

安顺，

一个我留念的地方。